What is a Friend?
This is how the Webster’s II Dictionary on my desk defines the word “friend”:
a person whom one knows, likes and trusts; an acquaintance; and a person with whom one is allied in a struggle or cause.
Wow! By that definition, I have hundreds and thousands of friends!
Google, on the other hand, reports 6,400 other websites that cover the same topic. Their observations are quite different, a few of which follow:
- A friend is always faithful to you, even during bad times.
- A friend is devoted to your friendship and will never do anything to destroy it.
- A friend is someone you’re free to be yourself around.
- A friend is someone you can tell your most private thoughts to.
- A friend is openly honest with you.
- A friend goes out of their way to make time for you.
- A friend helps you become a better person.
- A friend is always there for you when you need someone.
- A friend enjoys your successes as though they were his or her own.
- A friend is anyone that is willing to be a friend.
- A friend loves you.
That significantly narrows down the playing field to less than a handful, doesn’t it? It’s amazing how many people that I have listed in the Friends section of the Address Book on my Palm Pilot that don’t meet those basic definitions.
Where do you think you fit in?
friends are for each other!!
A good friend is the one who bails you out of jail.
A REALLY good friend is the one sitting next to you saying “Man, that was sooo cool!”
And it’s your BEST friend who says, “Let’s do that again!!”
All I have to say is GASP! Har har! Never mind…
It is so true! I have a mate who i love in more ways than 1, and he is always so depressed round me lately.
He doesn’t live up to those definitions.